随笔

1. 从小我就懂得保护自己，我知道要想不被人拒绝，最好的办法就是先拒绝别人。

1. 多年之后，我有个绰号叫西毒，任何人都可以变得狠毒，只要你尝试过什么叫做嫉妒。
2. 每个人都会经过这个阶段，见到一座山，就想知道山后面是什么。我很想告诉他，可能翻过山后面，你会发现没什么特别。回望之下，可能会觉得这一边更好。
3. 其实“醉生梦死”只不过是她跟我开的一个玩笑，你越想知道自己是不是忘记的时候，你反而记得更清楚。我曾经听人说过，当你不能够再拥有，你唯一可以做的，就是令自己不要忘记。
4. 不久前，我遇上一个人，送给我一坛酒，她说那叫“醉生梦死”，喝了之后，可以叫你忘掉以前做过的任何事。我很奇怪，为什么会有这样的酒。她说人最大的烦恼，就是记性太好，如果什么都可以忘掉，以后的每一天将会是一个新的开始，那你说这有多开心。
5. 每个人都会坚持自己的信念，在别人来看是浪费时间，她却觉得很重要。
6. 以前也这么想，但是看着他一天天长大，我知道他早晚会离开我。现在我觉得什么都无所谓啦。以前我认为那句话很重要，因为我觉得有些话说出来就是一生一世，现在想一想，说不说也没有什么分别，有些事会变的。我一直以为是我自己赢了，直到有一天看着镜子，才知道自己输了，在我最美好的时候，我最喜欢的人都不在我身边。如果能重新开始那该多好啊！
7. 有些人是离开之后，才会发现离开了的人才是自己的最爱。
8. 我曾经问过自己，你最喜欢的女人是不是我，现在我已经不想再知道啦。如果有一天我忍不住问起，你一定要骗我，就算你心里有多么不愿意，也不要告诉我你最喜欢的人不是我。
9. 知不知道饮酒和饮水有什么区别？酒越饮越暖，水越喝越寒。
10. 很多年之后，我有个绰号叫做“西毒”。其实任何人都可以变得狠毒，只要你尝试过甚么叫“忌妒”。我不会介意他人怎样看我，我只不过不想别人比我更开心。
11. 虽然我很喜欢她，但是我不想让她知道，因为我明白得不到的东西永远是最好的。每次她凝望着那小孩子，我知道她心里其实在想另一个人。我很妒忌欧阳峰，我很想知道被人喜欢的感觉是怎样的，结果我伤害了很多人。 ——《东邪西毒》

1. "Rehashing old arguments and defending myself against something she said about me."

1. "The past is just a story we tell ourselves."
2. "I think anybody who falls in love is a freak. It's a crazy thing to do. It's kind of like a form of socially acceptable insanity."
3. "The heart's not like a box that gets filled up; it expands in size the more you love."
4. "You know what, I can over-think everything and find a million ways to doubt myself."
5. "It's like I'm reading a book, and it's a book I deeply love. But I'm reading it slowly now. So the words are really far apart and the spaces between the words are almost infinite. I can still feel you, and the words of our story. But it's in the endless space between the words that I'm finding myself now. It's a space that's not of the physical world. It's where everything else is that I didn't even know existed. I love you so much. But this is where I am now. And this is who I am now. And I need you to let me go. As much as I want to, I can't live in your book anymore."
6. Will you always come home to me and tell me about your day? Tell me about the guy at work who talked too much. The stain you got on your shirt at lunch. Tell me about a funny thought you had when you were waking up but had forgotten about. Tell me how crazy everyone is, and we can laugh about it. Even if you get home late and I'm already asleep... Just whisper in my ear one little thought you had today. Because I love the way you look at the world. I'm so happy I get to be next to you and look at the world through your eyes."
7. Dear Catherine I’ve been sitting here thinking about all the things I wanted to apologize to you for. All the pain we caused each other, everything I put on you - everything I needed you to be or needed you to say. I’m sorry for that. I will always love you because we grew up together. And you helped make me who I am. I just wanted you to know there will be a piece of you in me always, and I’m grateful for that. Whatever someone you become, and wherever you are in the world, I’m sending you love. You’re my friend till the end. ——《Her》